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Trying to embrace my spanking fetish

I'm a 30 year old dominant male with a life long spanking fetish which has created many problems throughout my adult life. I hate my spanking fetish with a passion. I just want to be sexually "normal", dating is hard enough without having to find someone with the same fetish, iv been single the whole of my adult life because of this. I'm trying my best to Embrace this fetish by signing up on hear & searching online for a spankee to start a relationship with. I'm 5'11 with an athletic built & handsome looks. I don't have trouble meeting girls who are interested in me but my fetish has stopped me dating all of the girls who liked me. Even if the girl has fallen in love with me & accepted my fetish things don't work out as I'm not interested in vanilla sex & I don't find it arousing unless it involves lots of spanking sessions. The thought of spanking a girl who isn't into it makes me cringe as I feel embarrassed acting out my fantasies with someone who doesn't truly understand it.
Ideally id like to start a relationship with someone but I'm happy to have some spanking fun in the meantime. I'm not shallow so looks aren't important to me please get in touch. I can send you photos upon request.

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Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageEnglish
BuildAthletic / toned
Height180 cm
Eye ColorBlack
Hair ColorDark brown
Body ArtInked all over

Situation

Relationship StatusSingle
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsNot sure
Wants to RelocateYes
AvailabilityAnytime / Anyplace

Looking For

I prefer:Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Thoughtfulness
Our first dateWell that all depends on the girl. A few drinks to lighten the atmosphere followed by some spanking fun back at the hotel. I'm willing to travel anywhere in the U.K to meet the right person

BDSM Preferences

Experience levelIntermediate
I enjoyHair pulling

Sexual Interests

Sex toys:None of the above
"Off Limits":anything to do with children, animals & SCAT

Spanking Preferences

Role:I prefer doing the spanking
Use safety words:Always
Turns me on:Watch spanking porn, Read spanking stories, I'm always in the mood, Being sent to a room to wait, The Closure / Forgiveness, Being Told to Remove Pants, Being Told to Assume the Position, Being Told to Fetch the Implement, Be surprised and taken without any warning
Include sex and orgasm:Sometimes
Positions:OTK - Over the knee, Lying face down, Over a chair / bed / desk, Over the masters lap, Head or waist between legs, Kneeling on something with hands on floor, Lying on back with legs raised towards chest
Implement:Hand, Cane, Rulers / Martinet, Hairbrush, Belt, Wooden Spoon
Response:Resistance